I wouldn't toss them, if they don't end up growing try experimenting with them, what's the worst that can happen? It doesn't grow? lol It's not like you will technically be loosing anything if it isn't growing and trying new things with the plant doesn't help. I know in your other thread you thought maybe it was a Ca deficiency, that's possible. Try some Ca.
Don't touch them, period. Even if you start experimenting, try not to uproot them unless you are moving them from a shaded spot to a non-shaded spot. If you have multiple stems you could leave one completely undisturbed in the same tank for a "control" specimen and experiment on a separate stem.
First I would add root tabs and possibly snip the top half inch or so. maybe the bottom half inch too too try to get new roots too spring. And try planting it in a "deeper" section of substrate
Try moving them around in the tank too see if it is lighting related (they are getting blocked out or something)
Maybe it's your water hardness? Do you have high gh/kh? I have seen people complain that hardness effects the growth of some plants (even easy plants).
If no response, I would try trimming different segments and planting segments of the plant too see if it will promote new growth.
Let them float around for a bit see if it does anything to promote root growth.
Take the leafs off stem plants too see if it promotes new growth.
Eventually if nothing works you will end up with a trash stem anyways, you mind as well try to see if anything works first.
I feel your pain, I have a plant that I have had for months in 3 different tanks all with different substrate/co2/dosing that I feel doesn't do anything but sit their. If it grows it's very dismal but I just leave it, eventually i'll try moving it too my emersed setup too see if that will effect anything. The only time I noticed growth was when it was in a very deep part of the substrate and I was ei dosing but I ended up moving it in the tank and it stunted again so I just moved it to a dirt tank for now.