So if they promised to send you 3 and only send 2, is that ok too? Becasuse, its all lying, and it does matter.
I care, play by the rules, stop gouging money unfairly. I too wish Ebay would put the hammer on these sellers, but they just refuse. Ebay keeeps upping the fees, partly because of this kind of nonsense. It will cost this seller 2 bucks to ship.
Its not right and you cannot justify lying.
They are not stealing. However, it seems that you want something for less than it costs. I mean sure, I'd like for someone to sell me a $150 regulator for $30, but its not going to happen.
Once again, it's simple math. If you paid $100 for something regardless of how those costs were allocated, who cares? If you want to buy it for $100, then do it. However, someone is going to cover their costs in some way so you are not likely to find it for $50.
Actually the honest truth is that you're getting a better deal from someone who charges high shipping anyway. Take the following example of an item which will sell for a total of $100. Let's say for example that the seller has $75 into this item including what it will cost him to ship to you.
Option 1
Sells for $96 + $4 Shipping. Ebay gets approximately $2.40 (with no fancy auction upcharges for the insertion fee $3.63 for final value fees. Plus this guy has to have a box, packing, and shipping which may total $8 or so.
Option 2
Sells for $50 + $50 shipping. Most of the same above except that the seller saves $1.50 in final value fees.
Now, most things on ebay sell with tight margins because of the tremendous competition on there. If the seller was forced to spend an additional $1.50 in fees just to have an auction that doesn't offend your tender sensibilities, don't you think you're going to pay $1.50 more in the future on all those auctions?