I got 2 weeks at 100% pay starting on May 5th, I came back and worked (I'm a branch manager for a bank) may 15th so a few employees could take a vacation. I had the following Monday and tuesday off, was suppose to go back last Wed. Well, last tuesday night I ate a banana instead of a pop tart for a nightly snack, and ended up going into anaphylactic shock shortly after finishing it. Wife with newborn in the back seat rushed me to the hospital, which is only 2 miles from our new house. Due to that (having a very understanding boss, as I almost suffocated by the time we reached the hospital), I ended up with the rest of the week off to recover. Yesterday was my first day back, bit of anxiety when I arrived that I puked in the parking lot as I was pulling in lol. I'm doing better now on my second day back. I work 4 miles from home, so I can run home over lunch and check on them. My wife and I both understand in order for us to stay sane and not kill each other, we both need our own time to clear our heads and emotions. She understands if I come home and head straight to the den, it's been a long day and she will give me an hour or so then bring Ridley down and take her time. She sat on my lap last night as I played xbox for a few hours while mom took a nap. We've been together for 10 years, got married in 2008.
Bump: I think I have decided on the aquatek mini co2 regulator and 2 24oz paintball tanks. I hope the dicks down the street can fill them for me.
I'm not sure the finnex clip on will be enough light. I'm only going to grow stargrass, dwarf sag and maybe some fissdens. I have a 24inch dual t8 light I could suspend above the tank if need be, I might just order a 36inch finnex planted+ for it. Undecided.