Just an order-of-operations thing, I’ll tell you how I moved the last time. I also had a weekend to make the move…
Assuming everything is packed, Saturday we moved everything except the tank. On Saturday night, I spent the night putting together the beds, getting the coffee pot, hygiene stuff, etc all set. Sunday, my wife and the kids stayed at the new house while I went to the old house and started breaking down the tank. Once everything was packed up (same way as others have suggested), I called a buddy of mine to help get the tank and storage bin to and from the car with me. Once we got to the destination, I set the filter and heater back up, got the fish into their (bare) tank, helped with the last couple of things the family needed, and got some sleep. I also had Monday off of work, so I spent Monday getting the tank set up properly. I used the same tub as I used to move them. I kept my plants floating in the tank during the week, and replanted everything the following weekend.
Basically, the goal was to get the fish into their new home as quickly as possible, while doing as little as possible for the actual tank setup. That kept my wife from bi!ching that I was only worried about the tank, while making the move as stress free as possible on the fish.