I actually just purchased 3 pearl gouramis yesterday to join my ~40 fish school of bloodfin tetras so I don't have experience yet... will be adding them to the tank next month after QT. but before i bought them i did some research...
Initial observation after a night in my planted QT tank is that the pearls have for the most part stuck together. This is surprising because I read that they usually hide in the corner for the first week as they are timid but this is not the case at all with mine. they are out and about, kissing the surface, and hanging out together more often than not. they are also very young and only like 2" long at this point.
Like the above poster said, they can work out fine with schools of fish that are alleged 'fin nippers' (rummys) under the right conditions. From what I have read, to increase chances of success you should establish the school of the smaller fish and THEN introduce the larger fish. also, the larger of the school of tetras you have the better off you will likely be. people say that large schools mess with each other more often than other fish. having said that, if you are going neons or cardinals I may not even worry about this point. pretty sure neons and cardinals both are not the 'fin nipping' type and are very docile - you should look into that though. never owned either. I have bloodfin tetras which I have been told are very much fin nippers / they are very active so we'll see what happens when I introduce my pearls...
Also read that pearls are generally extremely peaceful. any aggression between them should be solved simply by providing them with enough plants in the tank to 'escape to' every once in a while. this is common sense with just about any non-schooling fish though. once they establish 'tank dominance' mechanics and all that crap they will learn to co-exist given space. too small of a tank will obviously cause issues though... (again, common sense)
I haven't experienced the last 2 paragraphs firsthand but in my research those are the major things i saw pointed out