Do you have plants in the tank?
Anybody have any other advice? Should I get another one or just see how these two play out?
Even if the male pairs with the new ram, the old female will likely get beat up by both the others. I would see how it plays out, and if they don't pair (Like mine) they can still coexist, you just won't get fry.Anybody have any other advice? Should I get another one or just see how these two play out?
Try different things. Is she eating at all? She may have some kind of parasite or illness if she is not eating. 3 out of my 5 rams have died in the first month or two because they just stop eating and waste away, I never found out what the cause was.So my female ram kept getting harassed and was getting more timid with the male so I moved her to my 20 gallon tank. Would it be okay if I fattened her up and then put her back in the tank with the male? Any tips to fatten rams up? She eats blood worms and stuff, but spits them back out and doesn't eat them again. My female ram has been nipping at an algae wafer the last day or so! Any other ideas?