Well, for my stand at first I considered a new one from the pet store, but I didn't like the typical black metal stands. Next I looked for a piece of furniture that would support it, but I was scared. finally I got lucky and found one on craigslist that had been custom built. It is super nice.
For a filter, I don't think you will be happy with just a 2213. You will have hardly any flow throughout the tank. I started with a 2217, then added a 2213, then added 2 powerheads to get it how I want.