Join Date: Jul 2010
Location: Outside Philadelphia, PA
Sometime you reach a point where you need to admit that the hobby is no longer for you. At that time, it's best to sell or give away everything and let it go.
I'm getting older now, retired, and I can see that at some point, I'm just not going to be able to deal with lugging buckets of water, working on all the cleaning, and generally keeping up with everything. At that point, I'll get out of the hobby.
Considering that you haven't done a water change in a couple of years, and have lost interest in the hobby, giving it up, at least for awhile, may be a good choice.