From someone doing 30 to life and yes she does not visit this forum. I would highly recommend new couples consider a 3 way money split; OURS, his, hers. No matter who works or how much who makes.
OURS being bills and savings for the family. Then independent money for both. While a couple is a unit, total relinquishment of individuality crushes one spirit. It's also important to support each other's hobbies even if you could not care less about them.