Sorry about your wife's bowl and opae.
Cookymonster760 kind of left us in a mess. I was in the process of ordering some Chocolates from him, though we hadn't finished the order so payment hadn't been sent, when he disappeared from the scene. Do hope he's okay and that he makes amends soon. I did get some opae from him back in November, though.
Really good heat packs and insulation are necessary when shipping these guys in the cold weather. Cookymonster's opae source is a member of our forum, 100 of mine came directly from him via Hawaii.