I got love for ya man, i have no idea the circumstances and i don't presume to know anything
but if my wife made me take my tanks down, it would not be pretty. we both allow eash other to enjoy hobbies that the other dispises
she can't stand my tanks because it takes time away from her, and i can't possibly stand her hobbie(s) yes with an s because they to me are inane and stupid. but i would never tell her to stop doing them.
im sure you love your wife or you would not have agreed. i will hold no blame there, but man THAT STINKS