I fortunitly have a spouse who tollarates my hobbies.
Acctually I would be in the dog house if I bought her diamonds or jewelry. Much rather have a set of heads for her truck.
To bad you missed out on that tank. Post pics of your scape when your done cant wait to see it. I am in the same boat as you but I dont have any fish left to worry about moving. Just tank and plants. Going to redo my 55 for a group of discus.