Laura, if it's a head and shoulder shot it should be shot at the same height. However if you are doing a full length shot then the photog should be down low. I mean on the ground low. "Normal" length lenses aren't very flattering. A woman should be shot at around 200mm. Lens compression is very flattering to facial features.
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