I'm for real about to throw in the towel on these dang OEBTs.
But Ms Thang is still hanging on and her babies are now out and about more (still only seen 4-5 at once cause I'm too afraid to lift leaves). The water they are in is way harsher than what is even in the OEBT tank. Going to try to soften that a bit over the next few days as well. I'll figure it out eventually I guess.Sigh.