Well, first of all. I believe him retarded or slightly. Seriously. Otherwise I would have to hate him.
The other big issue we have is that he leaves front and back door unlocked and we live in Oakland. Several times I came back from work at 1am and I found my wife and son sleeping with the doors unlocked, my wife now can't fall asleep until I get home, just in case this retard doest it again. Why? Because not that long ago somebody stole our bikes from the backyard.
He is one of those stupid guys that don't see reality as it is, he lives in a world of fantasy. He is a believer. So if he believes that is ok to move my tanks doesn't matter I I tell him otherwise.
And as for revenge, he is so stupid an careless that I can't think of anything that will really matter to him if broken. Anyhow, I feel that if I unleash my revenge instinct then it will do more harm to me than to him. I won't drink poison for someone else's stupidity.
But, I will speak out and tell him how I think about his intellect in a way that will largely demonstrate my point. That at least will be a stub to his ego and will make me feel even.
I can start another tank, and I don't need his friendship it's a risk.
We decided to move out, even my wife is pissed at him for not respecting our request to not fix anything while we were gone. We take this as a warning, he has left the stove on and left the house before while we were asleep, we don't want to find out what will be the next retarded action.
Note: I don't like to describe something silly as "retarded" because of offending people with mental disparity, but in this case I'm quite sure it's a pathology as one of his siblings is actually "fully" retarded.
If all this wouldve been an accident I wouldn't be so mad, but it was a disrespectful decision that killed my main tank.
I made this tank with my own hands, all of it, woodwork and glass in 2004. Never had an issue before.
You guys, I feel so sad that I don't even want to continue in the hobby. I feel like tearing all this tanks apart and move on. It took the magic and happiness away.