Hi Betta Maniac, are your blue ram in a species only tank? I have two pairs in a community tank with 3 cories, a few guppies and tetras. Though one pair has spawned three times in the past three weeks, the eggs have disappeared each time on day three. I think I may have to remove the "community" if I hope to get any fry out of this pair. Also, my female lay the eggs and just leaves, the male stays to watch the eggs.