time for a new gf imo...
What is it with men on this forum always saying their "wife" or "girlfriend" is giving them problems? If that was the case with me I'd get a new girlfriend ASAP. There are so many wonderful women in the world that you can really find one that is just right for you. If she's giving you problems already and she's only your girlfriend, then imagine how she'd be when you are married....yikes!