Like stated California Carnivores is a great site.
I have a venus flytrap, nepenthes and another pitcher growing on a south facing window sill. The fly trap and pitcher sit in a container of Distilled Water. Very important. The Nepenthes is watered everyday with distilled also.
Flytrap and pitcher are both put in the refrigerator for about three months, Dec, Jan, Feb and than are re-potted.