I'm excited that she is involved. Iím just waiting for the odd decoration request like a castle or something and then I donít know what I will do
My wife was excited, requested a castle, a pirate ship and a no fishing sign. That was the end of her involvement.
i'm fortunate enough to have a wife that knows that the tank is, effectively, mine. since it is my hobby. if she were to mention anything ridiculous like that it would be in jest.
It also helps that I have this thing planned out as far as stocking is concerned. Most of the hardware is either planned out, or researched and being considered.