Wow...thank you both! I feel a bit better now
On another note, I think the blue rams I just got on Monday have bred. I noticed yesterday that they were hanging out alot in this one spot behind the driftwood on the right side of the tank. Today I noticed that they never came out of the spot at the same time. One always stays there if the other leaves. It's unfortunately a spot I can't get a good enough view of to see if there are eggs, but my cories keep trying to get to the spot and the rams keep chasing them off. So something is definitly up. I'm just really shocked because these were not an already mated pair. They were just two random picks out of a tank full of them. I know the eggs/fry will never survive in the community, but it's still kind of cool!