Ah yes, the restrictions of a teenager. I was going to say, I think some folks from Green Bay are coming down and you can catch a ride with them, but being 14 (which is fairly young, though I'm only 24
), your parents probably wouldn't oblige.
Side note: It's great seeing you (and other young folks) in the hobby at such an early age. I didn't really start keeping aquariums seriously until I was 20 years old or so - and that was just FISH, nothing planted, no fancy lights, no CO2/fertilzers, etc. Keep it up!